Read our FAQ and be wiser!

We will provide you with a little FAQ.  We will probably expand this when we get real questions (feel free to ask us) or when we just feel inspired. So we will expand this FAQ with actual Frequently Asked Questions later on.

What is Aspie-singles.com?

On this site people with Asperger’s syndrome / ASD can meet with others on the spectrum for dating and for friendship.

Where do I find your terms and conditions?

You will find them in the footer of the site or here.

How old should I be before I sign up?

You should be at least 18 years of age.

What can I expect from a membership?

You can browse profiles, search profiles, message with other members and view their photo albums.

Someone is really bugging me

Please report them personally to the admin. Don’t flag them because that may delete some data that we would like to review. Serious abusers will be blocked permanently with an IP ban. Depending to the seriousness of the abuse we will not hesitate to report very serious abuse to the local authorities of the abuser.

Will you spam me with loads of mails after I sign up?

Nope, we won’t we will preferably use the “in-house” messaging system to talk to you, not your personal e-mail address. It may happen in some cases that we will send a special notice by mail to all users. You agree to that by signing up.

What do you do with my personal information?

Nothing. We will not use it in any other way than you have intended it for. We don’t share or sell your information like so many others do. So your information is safe with us.

What about encryption?

Passwords are encrypted in the database and we use on SSL issued by COMODO. This means that all any traffic between you and the website is encrypted. We however recommend that you’ll use an unique password for  just this website.

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If I sign up will everyone be able to see my profile?

No, your profile is visible for logged in users only! This despite the visibility settings in your profile. Those are overruled to protect your privacy. However. Your profile picture and handle will be visible on the frontpage. If you like to be completely anonymous then we recommend using a general (decent) profile picture, and put pictures of yourself in your gallery.

How about spam and fakes on your site?

We have different modules running minimizing spammers, scammers and known internet abusers. If someone might happen to slip through, please report to the site admin or flag them. We can never guarantee a site without these but we do our utmost to keep it as clean as possible. Apart from all that we go through the site to delete empty profiles from time to time.

Are there rules concerning the images I upload?

No nudity!!! No fakes… Nude pics in your profile won’t be tolerated and removed together with the rest of your profile. We have a hard policy on this as this is a site for dating and friendship it is not a sex dating site. Fake images portraying someone else as if it was you will be removed. If we find out and you will be served with a warning. You are further free to upload profile pictures of your personal hero, your bunny, your cat or tortoise, your favorite philosopher or musician, for as long it is very obvious that this is not you…

Are there rules about my profile?

Yes. No sexual content. No harassment. Also, you have to have content. Empty profiles will be deleted.

I see my picture on the front page carousel and I see status updates when I am logged off. I don’t want that!

You can select a neutral image not containing you as the main profile picture and a non obvious screen name. Pictures of yourself you can put into your personal album. They are only visible to logged in users. The status updates only show what is happening but there are no details shown.

I want to change my profile information but don’t see how to.

In your profile you scroll down a bit until you see “activity”, “Profile” “Notifications” and so on… there you select “profile”. then you get to a new screen with “view” “edit” “profile pictures”… You select “edit” there. Then all the profile fields come up for you to edit.

I am a paying member and want to cancel my recurring payment.

This you can do here
If you experience problems with this then please contact us. We can also do it for you.

Deleting my account

We hope you found someone. That is the goal of this site. So to delete your account go to your profile, choose “settings” and choose “Delete Account“. Note that if you have a paid subscription you need to cancel that before deleting your account. 

I am not a member so how do I contact you outside of this site?

You can mail us at info@aspie-singles.com

Registration and accounts

1.1 Eligibility: To be eligible for an individual account on our dating website, www.aspie-singles.com, you must be at least 18 years of age and must complete all the obligatory fields on the registration form(s).

1.2 Account Creation: You may register for an account with our website by completing and submitting the account registration form on our website.

1.3 Account Security: You must notify us in writing immediately if you become aware of any unauthorized use of your account.

1.4 Personal Use: You must not use any other person’s account to access the website.

1.5 No Offenses: You should not have been convicted of any offense, or subject to any court order, relating to assault, violence, sexual misconduct, or harassment.

**User IDs and Passwords**

2.1 User Credentials: If you register for an account with our website, we will provide you with or ask you to choose a user ID and password.

2.2 Authenticity: Your user ID must not be liable to mislead and must comply with the content rules set out below; you must not use your account or user ID for or in connection with the impersonation of any person.

2.3 Password Confidentiality: You must keep your password confidential and must not share it with any third parties.

2.4 Unauthorized Disclosure: You must notify us in writing immediately if you become aware of any disclosure of your password.

2.5 Responsibility: You are responsible for any activity on our website arising out of any failure to keep your password confidential and may be held liable for any losses arising out of such a failure.

**Cancellation and Suspension of Account**

3.1 Our Rights: We may:

(a) suspend your account;
(b) cancel your account; and/or
(c) edit your account details,

at any time at our sole discretion without notice or explanation. If we cancel any services you have paid for and you have not breached these terms and conditions, we will refund to you a pro-rata amount of your payment, such amount to be calculated by us using any reasonable methodology.

3.2 User Cancellation: You may cancel your account at any time. You will not be entitled to any refund if you cancel your account in accordance with this section.

**Dating Services**

4.1 Free Registration: You may register for free to browse parts of the site. Certain features, like contacting other members, are paid.

4.2 Registered users with appropriate subscriptions shall be able to access dating-related services on our website, which may include:

(a) upload a personal profile;
(b) access to our searchable database of other users’ personal profiles;
(c) private messaging of other users; and/or

4.3 User Behavior: You acknowledge that we cannot be held responsible for the behavior of our users, either on or off the website, and we cannot guarantee that any information provided by a user is true, accurate, complete, current, and not misleading; you will not hold us liable in respect of any loss or damage arising out of any user behavior or user information.

4.4 No Verification of Identity: We cannot advise on or broker marriage or long-term relationships. We do not have a contractual obligation nor moral or ethical responsibility to:

– Verify the identity of persons who register to use our services; or
– To verify or monitor content;

As a member, you are advised not to assume that any content or profile uploaded by a member is accurate. A person may claim not to be who they claim to be. You should at all times exercise the same caution you would normally when you meet people. We cannot be liable for false or misleading information or statements by users.

4.5 Meeting Precautions: When arranging to meet another person through the use of our services, you must take appropriate precautions. Any such meetings are at your own risk and are not our responsibility.

**Personal Profiles**

5.1 Truthful Information: All information that you supply as part of a personal profile on the website must be true, accurate, current, complete, and non-misleading.

5.2 Profile Updates: You must keep your personal profile on our website up to date.

5.3 Image and Privacy Consent: You waive all recourse against us on the basis of any possible damage to the right to use your image, honor, reputation, and privacy, and you have given your prior consent by registering with us.

**Fees**

6.1 Membership Levels: The website has three membership levels – a weekly membership with a free trial, a monthly membership, and a yearly membership.

6.2 Payment After Trial: After the free trial, your bank account will be charged with the membership fee mentioned in your membership level. Cancellation of your membership is your responsibility. Aspie Singles carries no responsibility for ongoing withdrawals while you don’t use the website. Aspie Singles is not responsible for ongoing withdrawals after you lose your password or after the loss of other credentials. You waive all recourse against us in such cases, and we advise you to use the contact form for assistance.

6.3 Subscribers’ Responsibility: Subscribers with paid subscriptions are solely responsible for canceling their subscriptions before deleting their accounts. We shall not be held responsible for any charges incurred due to failure to cancel paid subscriptions prior to deleting an account. Subscribers must ensure they follow the appropriate cancellation procedures to avoid any additional fees or charges.

**Cancellation Right for Distance Contracts**

7.1 You have the right to cancel your account at any given moment.

7.2 Cancellation of your membership is your responsibility. However, if you wish to cancel directly after payment of a new term, please contact us, and we will refund you. You waive all recourse against us in case of withdrawals without proper cancellation. We advise you to use the contact form for assistance.

**Your Content: License**

8.1 In these terms and conditions, “your content” means all works and materials (including, without limitation, text, graphics, images, audio material, video material, audio-visual material, scripts, software, and files) that you submit to us or our website for storage or publication on, processing by, or transmission via, our website.

8.2 License Grant: You grant to us a worldwide, irrevocable, non-exclusive, royalty-free license to use, reproduce, store, adapt, publish, translate, and distribute your content in any existing or future media/reproduce, store and publish your content on and in relation to this website and any successor website/reproduce, store and, with your specific consent, publish your content on and in relation to this website.

8.3 Sub-License: You grant to us the right to sub-license the rights licensed under Section 8.2.

8.4 Legal Action: You grant to us the right to bring an action for infringement of the rights licensed under Section 8.2.

8.5 Moral Rights Waiver: You hereby waive all your moral rights in your content to the maximum extent permitted by applicable law; and you warrant and represent that all other moral rights in your content have been waived to the maximum extent permitted by applicable law.

8.6 Content Editing: You may edit your content to the extent permitted using the editing functionality made available on our website.

8.7 Content Removal: Without prejudice to our other rights under these terms and conditions