Reply To: Lack of interaction on site

[DragonEmbers]

I’m sure everyone who has logged in more than once or twice has noticed.

I have a suspicion that some people want to use this purely as a dating site, meaning they don’t want to post or interact unless they can possibly get a date out of it. More activity on the forum, however, could attract more people to the site so that there are more chances to get dates.

Online dating in the U.S. has become a joke: few people seem to take it seriously, so I wouldn’t put much stock in how often women message anyone. I’ve seen people online admit to pretending to being the opposite sex on dating sites, and one woman said that she deliberately gives only very brief responses like ‘hey’ to see whether guys will chase after her even though she’s putting forth no effort. It’s a bunch of disturbed, disrespectful people playing games.