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I spend an amusingly alarming amount of time thinking ‘I would trade away all my earthly possessions for a hug right now’; I usually end up trying to suppress the neediness a bit by drawing or reading shipfic and imagining myself in it.
personally, i am not into hugs apart from when i am romantically involved with a partner.
Then i love them.
I always find hugging men very difficult, especially if the men hug me more than for a second.
feels like their getting something sexual or perverse out it, like their getting an erection.
Kind of creeps me out.
Yere, one of my quirks, perhaps i would be more successful in dating (or at creeping people out)
if i hugged woman more.
But i don’t do that either, as like i say, only hug romantic partners.
SO spend a fair amount of time without hugs. can’t say i feel that i miss that much.
Although when i do not have a girl friend, can get lonely and can do with a part time lover (like Micheal Jackson’s song, or
man needs a made, like Neil Young’s song).