My girlfriend is NT and we learn a lot from each other. I think that overall it’s easier for an aspie to communicate with an aspie, but there are always exceptions.
What’s most important is that there is enough love and care for each other and we have plenty of that despite the hurdles. At the end it’s plain acceptance of each other that counts.
Ps. Why I am on a dating site while I have a girlfriend? It’s my site and she knows about it of course. 😉