Reply To: I find people off the spectrum lie too much

[Holly]

I have experienced the same difficulties. I often can’t tell when someone is lying in the moment. I have to process the conversation (or long continual conversation/relationship) after interactions occur. For me it’s really offensive and has led me to where I am now: I don’t understand NTs. If they can’t live in truth, and speak the truth, then, in essence, the purpose of the relationship is simply self-serving. That’s not friendship at all.