19/02/2020 at 8:59 pm #9299kittenkat1981Participant
Other than going to online sites, not really, because I don’t really know how.05/03/2020 at 5:35 am #9374kevlar22Participant
While I am interested in dating with people I can actually relate to, I don’t actively seek out a romantic relationship. I am not really bothered about remaining single for the rest of my life because I will rather be happy by myself than being miserable with someone. However, I don’t want to live with regrets of never acting on my interest in the possibility of finding a unique romance and thus I want to use this site to meet and connect with people while passively acting on my interest in finding a potential romantic partner.29/05/2020 at 9:26 pm #10095DellaParticipant
Before I realized my position on the spectrum, I tried so hard to have the “normal” relationship and just didn’t understand the rules of relationships apparently. I’m finding it comforting to read some of these blogs. I’m learning new terminology like sapio and demi sexual! Thanks! I have always said it’s more important to me to be human first, gender second.31/05/2020 at 3:54 pm #10187AnonymousInactive
Right now, I’m not looking at dating. I’m here to make some new friends. Everyone could use more friends. It’s unlikely I’ll find someone on here to date, and I understand that. I haven’t found anyone who lives close enough to me to date.24/06/2020 at 12:03 pm #10344SisiParticipant
I haven’t been for awhile, I deactivated all the other sites I was using and haven’t really been putting myself out there much. I would like to meet somebody who is able to offer what I look for in a partner, I can relate to and have a great connection with though. I do want to put myself out there again so I do have more opportunities and I can’t just expect this sort of thing to just fall into my lap without looking really, but it’s difficult.20/08/2020 at 10:23 pm #10555AnonymousInactive
I’ll admit it. I am a hopeless romantic. I do long for a real relationship, but I am overly picky and cautious, which I know is a fault of mine. I never thought I could handle the social complexities of a relationship due to my Asperger’s, until now. How can one actually know what one can handle until one tries? It might be too late due to my age, but it is true – I do want a deeper connection with a woman. I have to be honest, so here I am. Take it or leave it. In any case, I sincerely hope that all of you find what you are looking for someday.27/08/2020 at 2:44 pm #10569AnonymousInactive
Ive only seeked out romantic relationships myself. Mostly met girls at friends events like quiet house parties etc, never bars.
I love finding out about someone because i get to know them and get a feel for what their into, so getting to hang out and chat is the way for me personally.16/09/2020 at 4:52 am #10627AnonymousInactive
“Everybody has a hungry heart”09/11/2020 at 7:41 am #10816AnonymousInactive
Before I joined this website, I was in a relationship with a woman for 2 years (who I planned on proposing to at the end of this year). I broke up with her after she cheated on me with my best friend. It was already hard enough for me to date where I live; but to lose my girlfriend and best friend on the same day almost sent me into a depression. But, with the help of my therapist and one of my good friends, I decided to poke around one night on Google to find some of the best, affordable dating sites that cater to people with Aspergers Syndrome. Thankfully, I have found this site and it has been three days since I joined and I hope to find not just a girlfriend, but someone who I want to spend the rest of my life with. I hope that there are more people that join soon, so that I can find my match.16/11/2020 at 1:35 pm #10828AnonymousInactive
No.However, I am making a small effort online.02/05/2021 at 11:22 pm #12056MalinOklaParticipant
I am looking for like-minded people to communicate with. Being sapiosexual and demisexual as well as an Aspie, make dating nearly non-existant, but I would like to date. I’ve been on other dating sites. I got tricked a few times, as I don’t understand games being played. I wonder what this site is like. I’m trying.25/05/2021 at 12:17 pm #12452AntiRacistAspieSupremacistParticipant
So uh…. You cant message someone else until you and that other person both bought premium membership?02/06/2021 at 6:11 am #12791AnonymousInactive
Ditto Ewoud for the most part. Things definitely have to fall into line. I think it’s more a matter of the starting point really… What hooks you? Mind? Body? ______? and then grow from there… Ultimately, yes – a romantic relationship is a threshold that takes one to the next level. So, I’m up for that.07/06/2021 at 1:16 am #13507AnonymousInactive
yes i am currently im looking for someone to accept me for who i am28/08/2021 at 10:43 pm #15780AnonymousInactive
I honestly do want a relationship but I have no idea how to express what I want. I have specific personality, physical, and even sexual traits I find attractive but I have no idea how to tell a potential girlfriend these things. But I also want her to be comfortable expressing what she’s looking for in a guy so I could know how to please her. And of course, I think we’d both want someone who understands our Autism/Asperger’s and is willing to look beyond our weird quirks. So I’d say yes I’m actively seeking but have yet to find someone to make a genuine connection with.
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