Reply To: The difference between men and women with ASD in regards to sexual behavior…

[Anonymous]

That’s pretty interesting. When I was young compatibility was common. However as I got older everyone’s drive decreased, mine did not. That really put a wedge on compatibility to move forward. Out of all the relationships I’ve had, the only one that was truly compatible with me on this subject, she was on the spectrum and had even higher needs. I was a very lucky man to have someone like that in high school, dated from age 14 to 22.

At a young age with hormones racing, I can’t imagine where I would have ended up if it wasn’t for her, lol. As of today it’s been six years, don’t even remember what it feels like. Online dating is my only tool, no one responded in that time. I fill void with treating myself. Cook an awesome meal, binge something awesome like LOTR. Entertainment may not be what you asked for but it goes the distance!

After a few years of being invisible that desire goes away (finally). After that, you can really focus that attention on you and make the best of it.

Thanks for sharing!
Brad