I have tried so many dating sites: okcupid, pof, match, eharmony, veggiedate, yahoo personals, even tried to connect with people through myspace, livejournal and craigslist.
At the time I did not realize I am aspie, so was probably too eager or too nice.
I don’t think I will ever actively try to meet another person for a long term relationship again. It’s just too painful, I keep getting hurt…
I think I will just have friends.. and work on myself.